Tea and Sympathy
One thing some clients ask about is advice. Advice about their relationships, if they are in one, or if they are not how to get in one and attract a woman. I think people in general, phone sex callers or not, usually do not take advice at all. They ask someone’s opinion until they find one that mirrors their own and go with that one, or not even one at all and just do nothing and sit in limbo. So many call the phone sex lines looking for a dimestore psychologist that will tell them how to fix their problems. Most however are quite comfortable in their ruts and will do nothing.
Limbo is their comfortable home they are reluctant to leave. Change is painful, and if married and you’re advising them to leave their cold fish of a wife they haven’t loved for years and refer to as the bitch, it can be expensive to extricate themselves from, so they accept things as they are. Most people are like this. It’s easier to do nothing and complain than actually get off your duff and do something constructive to actually start to change things permanently for the better. It’s just too much work and staying as they are is a lot easier.
I can’t even count the number of callers I’ve told to leave their wives, forget that she’d take half what they’ve accumulated. Their money means more than their freedom. If that’s how they want to live, let them. They have the keys to their own prison cell and are choosing to not leave the cell. You can’t reason with them, pitiful. They however need to masturbate too, so I do my best with them. They want tea and sympathy, not true advice, as they have no desire to really do anything, to really change. They just want someone to feel sorry for them and agree with them, not tell them to actually do anything.
Who You Gonna Call?
Not all guys calling a phone sex line are looking for sexy talk. Hard to believe isn’t it? Many though are just seeking genuine companionship and will talk about anything from movies and t.v. shows, sing to me, read poems they’ve written, all kinds of stuff. You haven’t lived until you’ve had a drunk man sing the theme song to “Eight Enough” to you at 3 am! One was telling me about the ghost in his house and all the banging of the walls and attic that go on.
It’s been there his whole life and seems to listen in on his phone calls. He’s feeling depressed and likes to talk to me to tell his troubles to, and mentioned how after he’d talked about possibly killing himself, people do use phone sex girls as dime store psychologists to a degree, they always have. He said he had been talking to another girl about asphyxiating himself in the garage with a hose over the car exhaust and doing it that way and the next day all the car windows were down in the garage, he said the ghost did it as a sign not to take his own life. I have no idea……Stranger things have happened I guess. I’m glad he can turn to me and feel better.
Not everyone is calling with their personal ghost stories this is true, most are calling to get off and that’s fine, but I do hear all kinds of stories ones can’t tell their wives, girlfriends, friends to. Many don’t even have anyone, so to ones alone, they really value someone to talk to . I’ve heard from some I’m the highlight of their day. That’s a nice thing to say, really. To some clients I matter, I’m a constant in their lives. I have some I’ve been talking to since I started in Sept. 2008, all these years and they still call me. I’m there for them.
Just Talkin’
There’s a lot of lonely guys out there in this world. Some have no wife or girlfriend, and even many that do have things they need to discuss that they just don’t feel comfortable with. So who do they talk to? A therapist they have to look in the eye? “Yes doctor, I have this, um ‘fetish’, I like to put balloons on my cock, cylinders of ice up my ass and wear makeup and high heels as I masturbate.” Um, that’s not too likely to happen.
So who do they call when they have these private things they need to discuss? Well many call a girl like me. Some don’t even confess their sexual matters, some are just plain lonely and want conversation with a woman. I’ve had talks about holidays where they showed me pictures of their lovely trips, had guys sing to me as they played their guitar or along to Youtube videos, discuss everything from movies to t.v. shows. Who knew guys were calling phone sex lines to talk about The Little Rascals or Days Of Our Lives! I can assure you, they are. Conversations can be so varied, you have no idea.
Calls like that are a real breath of fresh air and kind of like an oasis in our day. They are usually pleasant and often funny or surprising. Many feel more comfortable talking to someone like me than a therapist or psychologist. I am a much needed outlet in their lives in many cases. So many have told me how comfortable they feel talking to me and just having someone to talk to. So even if you just need a friendly ear to listen to you, I’m happy to converse with you.
A Little More Conversation
Most people think a guy would only call a phone sex girl for one thing-phone sex, right? Well, let me tell you, there are plenty of guys that call us phone sex girls for a lot more than just company as they masturbate. To many we are like psychologists of a sort. But we don’t have to look you in the eye and we aren’t making a permanent medical record of your thoughts either, so many feel we are a non threatening, easier outlet than a psychologist.
I have had clients that even told me they hired escorts-to talk to them. They said it was like phone sex in person to them, although to most people phone sex is masturbating, to them it is just a paid companion to talk to. I will be honest, calls like this are the oasis in our week when they come along. To actually have a fun, nice conversation that doesn’t even seem like work is beyond refreshing. Yes, there are actually people out there with very few friends or family, or the ones they do have they can’t for one reason or another talk to them, so they call up girls like me. To get eveything from their opinions on pop culture, to relationships. They do not come along often, a few a month at most usually. But they are wonderful when they do.
I have had men share secrets with me they haven’t shared with another living soul, and it’s an honor to hear some of their thoughts that they are choosing to share with me. I am glad I make them so comfortable and at ease that they can open up to me and tell me their secrets. Most men would be astounded to learn of the conversations I’ve had, with every topic spoken of under the sun. Some have played me the guitar, sung to me, read me their poetry, just wanted to share thoughts with another human being and they had no one else to share them with. General conversation is very welcome with me anytime, if you just want to talk, we can do that, not everyone calls for sex talk.
