Tea and Sympathy
One thing some clients ask about is advice. Advice about their relationships, if they are in one, or if they are not how to get in one and attract a woman. I think people in general, phone sex callers or not, usually do not take advice at all. They ask someone’s opinion until they find one that mirrors their own and go with that one, or not even one at all and just do nothing and sit in limbo. So many call the phone sex lines looking for a dimestore psychologist that will tell them how to fix their problems. Most however are quite comfortable in their ruts and will do nothing.
Limbo is their comfortable home they are reluctant to leave. Change is painful, and if married and you’re advising them to leave their cold fish of a wife they haven’t loved for years and refer to as the bitch, it can be expensive to extricate themselves from, so they accept things as they are. Most people are like this. It’s easier to do nothing and complain than actually get off your duff and do something constructive to actually start to change things permanently for the better. It’s just too much work and staying as they are is a lot easier.
I can’t even count the number of callers I’ve told to leave their wives, forget that she’d take half what they’ve accumulated. Their money means more than their freedom. If that’s how they want to live, let them. They have the keys to their own prison cell and are choosing to not leave the cell. You can’t reason with them, pitiful. They however need to masturbate too, so I do my best with them. They want tea and sympathy, not true advice, as they have no desire to really do anything, to really change. They just want someone to feel sorry for them and agree with them, not tell them to actually do anything.
Who You Gonna Call?
Not all guys calling a phone sex line are looking for sexy talk. Hard to believe isn’t it? Many though are just seeking genuine companionship and will talk about anything from movies and t.v. shows, sing to me, read poems they’ve written, all kinds of stuff. You haven’t lived until you’ve had a drunk man sing the theme song to “Eight Enough” to you at 3 am! One was telling me about the ghost in his house and all the banging of the walls and attic that go on.
It’s been there his whole life and seems to listen in on his phone calls. He’s feeling depressed and likes to talk to me to tell his troubles to, and mentioned how after he’d talked about possibly killing himself, people do use phone sex girls as dime store psychologists to a degree, they always have. He said he had been talking to another girl about asphyxiating himself in the garage with a hose over the car exhaust and doing it that way and the next day all the car windows were down in the garage, he said the ghost did it as a sign not to take his own life. I have no idea……Stranger things have happened I guess. I’m glad he can turn to me and feel better.
Not everyone is calling with their personal ghost stories this is true, most are calling to get off and that’s fine, but I do hear all kinds of stories ones can’t tell their wives, girlfriends, friends to. Many don’t even have anyone, so to ones alone, they really value someone to talk to . I’ve heard from some I’m the highlight of their day. That’s a nice thing to say, really. To some clients I matter, I’m a constant in their lives. I have some I’ve been talking to since I started in Sept. 2008, all these years and they still call me. I’m there for them.
