He Thinks He’s Gay

One thing that often surprises people that ask about my job or the kinds of calls I get is the number of phone sex callers that want to suck cock or are closeted bisexuals or outright gays. They don’t get why they aren’t calling a man, why call a woman? My personal theory is they find it easier to confess and talk to a woman rather than a man. Not to say I’m a mother figure and they are pretending it’s mommy they are confessing to, but a female can take all kinds of roles. They can imagine they are really telling this to their wife, friend, mom, sister, any one of many women in their lives they wish they could share this with but do not.

Lots of gay men are close to their mothers and if they are cock sucking in secret, especially if they are married which is more common than anyone realizes, they can imagine that confiding in a woman, getting acceptance from a woman, might make it just a little bit easier for them to consider really sharing that with an actual woman in their life. It is a sad fact how many men are living secret lives seeing men on the side behind their wife’s back and they are torn up, just tortured and not know what to do, so they go on as they are, doing things on the sly and praying no one finds out and blows their secret out of the water once and for all.

It’s so ironic and hypocritical to think of the level of homophobia in today’s society considering how many men are doing this, the old, me thinks they doth protest too much, is the situation in many cases. They recognize it in others and despise it, as it is a mirror reflecting it right back at them and they hate that is within them. I have several clients that call up to tell me about their latest exploits with men, they have never told another soul in some cases and they are greatly relieved to unburden themselves of the weight of their secrets. I am happy to listen.